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Maybe it doesn't make sense...but I have a lot of redeeming qualities
Posted:Jun 15, 2012 1:19 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2018 1:58 pm

I love hearing from you. As always, if you have something you would like to say or talk about in private, this is the place. I'm starting to find my comfort zone, so don't be afraid to speak your mind or ask your questions. I'll do my best to answer.
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I got the Dickens beat out of me...
Posted:Jun 17, 2018 6:45 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2018 6:41 pm

I am the best of men, I am the worst of men. I am wise, but I am foolish. I will make you believe, I will make you incredulous. I will bring you light and hope, and maybe darkness and despair. We will have everything, we will have nothing. I will take you to Heaven, and maybe to Hell.

Can we just live in the gray and be happy?
Can't shake this (watch it)
Posted:Jun 14, 2018 3:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2018 6:28 pm

Welcome to the room of people
Who have rooms of people that they loved day
Docked away
Just because we check the guns at the door
Doesn't mean our brains will change from hand grenades
You're lovin' on the psychopath sitting next to you
You're lovin' on the murderer sitting next to you
You'll think, "How'd I get here, sitting next to you?"
But after all I've said, please don't forget
All my friends are heathens, take it slow
Wait for them to ask you who you know
Please don't make any sudden moves
You don't know the half of the abuse

(watch it)
Thinking about life...
Posted:May 29, 2018 6:16 pm
Last Updated:Jun 1, 2018 12:34 pm

I've been lately thinking
About my life's time
All the things I've done
And how it's been
And I can't help believing
In my own mind
I know I'm gonna hate to see it end
I've seen a lot of sunshine
Slept out in the rain
Spent a night or two all on my own
I've known my lady's pleasures
Had myself some friends
And spent a time or two in my own home
And I have to say it now
It's been a good life all in all
It's really fine
To have a chance to hang around
And lie there by the fire
And watch the evening tire
While all my friends and my old lady
Sit and pass the pipe around
And talk of poems and prayers and promises
And things that we believe in
How sweet it is to love someone
How right it is to care
How long it's been since yesterday
And what about tomorrow
And what about our dreams
And all the memories we share
The days they pass so quickly now
Nights are seldom long
And time around me whispers when it's cold
The changes somehow frighten me
Still I have to smile
It turns me on to think of growing old
For though my life's been good to me
There's still so much to do
So many things my mind has never known
I'd like to raise a family
I'd like to sail away
And dance across the mountains on the moon
I have to say it now
It's been a good life all in all
It's really fine
To have the chance to hang around
And lie there by the fire
And watch the evening tire
While all my friends and my old lady
Sit and pass the pipe around
And talk of poems and prayers and promises
And things that we believe in
How sweet it is to love someone
How right it is to care
How long it's been since yesterday
What about tomorrow
What about our dreams
And all the memories we share
Missing you
Posted:May 20, 2018 10:41 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2018 3:27 pm

It is strange to think, I haven't seen you since a month. I have seen the new moon, but not you. I have seen sunsets and sunrises, but nothing of your beautiful face. The pieces of my broken heart are so small that they could be passed through the eye of a needle. I miss you like the sun misses the flower; like the sun misses the flower in the depths of winter. Instead of beauty to direct its light to, the heart hardens like the frozen world your absence has banished me to. I next compete in the city of Paris, I will find it empty and in the winter if you are not there. Hope guides me, that is what gets me through the day and especially the night. The hope that after you're gone from my sight, it will not be the last time that I look upon you.
What makes you intriguing...
Posted:May 20, 2018 10:38 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2018 3:44 pm

Prince Edward: [sighs] What a pair we make, huh? Both trying to hide who we are, both unable to do so. Your men love you. If I knew nothing else about you, that would be enough. But you also tilt when you should withdraw... and that is knightly, too.
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The ceiling is close. Yet so far away.
Posted:May 14, 2018 7:50 pm
Last Updated:May 19, 2018 2:57 am
I have been very busy lately. So much work. So little time. I attached a pic to give you an idea.
How the hell is it February?
Posted:Feb 1, 2018 7:54 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2018 12:35 am

It was just Halloween. I didn't put my costume away yet. What is going on?

Are you sending me a Valentine?
10. Trav finds a special friend who wants to try on clothes in a public dressing room together.
Posted:Jan 15, 2018 8:29 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2018 9:41 am

This is interesting. Trav vividly remembers photos that of his friends posted long ago from a store dressing room. He also remembers wicked tales and stories of such encounters. But on New Years Day, there was actually a clerk in a local mall looking for people to come in and keep her occupied on a slow day.

Trav did not partake, but was shocked that he had never had the opportunity to assist a friend up close and personal in choosing clothes...or not.

So, if you are scoring at home...#10 is a resolution or NEW.

Invitations are still being accepted. I will even spring for the clothes...
Wish Buxombbw4u a Happy 50th Tuesday. Please and Thank You
Posted:Jan 8, 2018 8:08 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2018 11:28 pm

Wish Buxombbw4u a Happy 50th Tuesday.
Please and Thank You
Posted:Jan 1, 2018 8:45 pm
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2018 6:52 pm

(Bux yells at me when I just put down lyrics without input. So see the input. )

We've got the right to choose it
There ain't no way we'll lose it
This is our life, this is our song

We'll fight the powers that be just
Don't pick our destiny 'cause
You don't know us, you don't belong

Oh you're so condeending
Your gall is never ending
We don't want nothin', not a thing from you

Your life is trite and jaded
Boring and confiated
If that's your best, your best won't do

Oh Oh

We're right (yeah)
We're free (yeah)
We'll fight (yeah)
You'll see (yeah)


My mind has been working on an entry.

Lots of friends. Lots of problems. Lots of sadness.

I wanted to say that I had a lot of love to give and that we needed to pull together and make our lives better. That we had more support than we knew, and that the time had come for change.

But it kept getting sappy and sad and pushy. Should I it "The Year of Love"? I had some other blog mottos that I just couldn't wrap around.

But then I stumbled on this great old song. And it made me realize what we all need.

A fight anthem. A war anthem. A declaration of war and change.
We're not going to take it anymore.
Who is with me?
Posted:Jan 1, 2018 12:48 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2018 8:23 pm

I have been toying with ideas all day. I am going to try this out and see how it goes. I am going to be brutally straight forward with this. I am also going to bring my special brand of mystery as well. So here goes...

A list of things that happened in 2017 and resolutions for 2018...but all intertwined for you to determine which are finished and which are coming...

1. Trav is a travel agent, setting up tours of coal mines and Hershey.
2. Trav surprises of his friends by planning a visit in the middle of the morning when he is supposed to be at work.
3. Trav delivers a present to a special friend.
4. Trav makes a surprise ph to some who finally gets to hear his voice for the first time.
5. Trav learns about Doms and Subs first hand.
6. Trav aids a friend who needs to move.
7. Trav delivers oral sex and orgasms to a woman who is missing both.
8. Trav delivers something from the Island of "Misfit Toys" to some who will love and appreciate it.
9. Trav admires a sexy friend who is wearing a curvy piece swimsuit, without the knowledge of the sexy friend...
10. Trav finds a special friend who wants to try on clothes in a public dressing room together.
11. Trav spends a platonic day with some special exploring a museum.
12. Trav takes a friend out for a special dinner.

So which are d, and which are to go?
We are also taking volunteers to with the new stuff...
Something I found and wanted to share
Posted:Dec 23, 2017 4:33 am
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2017 5:53 pm

By PATTON OSWALT November 30, 2017

Ugh, you’re alone on the holidays.

Every single cliché about solitude in winter pounces on you. You’re jumped. You’re pummeled into a gang of one that nobody else wants to join. The sun takes its sweet time heaving itself into the sky every morning, and then scuttles away too quickly right after 5 pm. Trees are bare and skeletal against a doomy, concrete sky. Life and motion and love all seem zombified.

You see happy families scurrying through the snow, clutching presents, laughing. Places to go. People to be with.

You’ve got no one.

And unlike other people who were maybe always alone, or never had someone special to scrub away a few layers of winter gloom, you did have someone. Someone you’d bend reality to have with you now. But they’re gone, faded into the grey planet you’re trapped on. It’s a world that now has a bitter flavor of mocking for all of its Thanksgiving/Christmas/Hannukah/Kwanzaa trimmings.

Is there any escape from this lonely planet? Can you build a spaceship and point it toward a world with a brighter sun, with more hopeful air to breathe?

You can’t. No one escapes the Lonely Planet.

So let me offer a radical solution.

Invade the Lonely Planet.

Be a hostile alien visitor. If the planet you’re trapped on seems sustained by despair and silence, then infect it with your unique, un-killable strain of joy and sound.

I am not telling you to fake happiness, or rivet a death-grin to your face as you go about your days. If anything, I’m giving you permission to drill your heels even deeper into the swamp of sadness you’re in. And with those heels dug in, and still with the weight of despair on your shoulders and the ocean of poisonous grief in your stomach, send joy and sound out into the Lonely Planet. Invade. Infect. Conquer.

There is peace and grace in spending the holidays alone. Take it from the veteran of many a Christmas Day in a half-abandoned Los Angeles. Go see an early matinee and sip coffee from the only sandwich place open on the block. Pretend you’re the survivor of a weird plague that’s wiped out the population yet still leaves TV stations broadcasting, fast food joints cooking you delicious food and empty buses crawling up abandoned streets. When you look at a holiday spent alone at the right angle, it becomes a sun-lit film noir wonderland.

If you fully inhabit and allow the beauty of a half-empty city or town to reset your depression, I promise you it will change the sadness around you. It will change the people around you. People’s loneliness isn’t alleviated by tit-for-tat joy. That’s too easy. It’s other people being alive and present which spawns true joy, and makes the dead air particles shimmer and vibrate and warm the world.

So go out and invade, in any way you can. If you have kids, make them part of your crew, let them join your mission. Be alive and aware and in motion on the Lonely Planet. It won’t stay lonely for long.

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