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Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2018 6:56 pm
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And checkin it twice
Goin to try to keep everything nice
List of blogs, thoughts, pondering, wishing, and daily fun...

The Fun Stuff - about me

On sex The kind of fg I need __ Sexy sounds he makes -- SomedaysConstant state of arousal -- Intimacy and the moment __ What kind of style __searching forThe other side to casual fwbs

Toys r'us Request to see my toys__New toys

My kinks: My master list for BDSM 2018
Alternative thinkin are you kink friendly update2016 __ Just a view into my kinks
Kinky search, for me and for you __The list __ My kinks bondage
Orgasm study__ Orgasm study__Kinky mind for me

My searches: not currently looking for anyone new.

Tongue Goes in First tonight__Squirty needs towels__Flirty Friday __Sinday morning and The list
another day done__Finding your MOJO
Sinday mornin __Seems I have __ confidence and attraction are they two different things
Photo time Male nude partial nude d15c
A post for some retrospect I suppose -- Trying to sleep -- Lustful thoughtsmind wanders at work

Virtual Symposium
1st time for the 12th VS International Intrigue -- 13th Virtual world and blogs -- 14th vs First dates
15th VS Black and White __ 16th vs Casual relationships __17th The First Time __18th VS Its a Secret&vs18its a secret__19thVS Its science time__20thVS My life as a __VS23 Dreams

Ponderings
Sexy saturdaypenis thoughts__ Adventures in dating land for tues__Mornin ladywood
Carpet service required__Sinday mornin well lunch time__Sex chat __Thirsty Thursday free time
world of words __ Logical right__Friday __ What kind of style
Strokin wat __Where o'where are you hiding


Just for daily FUN
Finally Friday__ Just another day in paradise __ Saturday free time
another chilly winter night j14n16 __ Sexy saturday night j3n16
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Just a thought...
Posted:Dec 15, 2018 4:25 pm
Last Updated:Dec 17, 2018 6:58 pm
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I am a cock worshiper.
 Just as simple as that.



Sucking cock, to me as I have said a few times already, is a form of art and an activity that I hold close to my heart. His pleasure is my pleasure.

I am a proud cocksucker,it a wonderful gift to be able to milk his cock with just my mouth. Coax every sticky sweet drop ...

It's deeper than just a few licks and sucks, I give it all that I can.
I get off knowing that he is using me for his pleasure, that I am being a good toy for him.
Being that sexual submissive with an oral fixation, only comes with established partners when I know there will be reciprocation at another date. This deep longing to worship his cock is not for the nsa guys.

I just love to please, I am always so eager to do so. 😍
I enjoy being his sex toy, used and satiated, then built up again with longing, praise, and desire.

I am very concerned if my partner is satisfied, so I learn what works for him... There is passion in every stroke, lick and suck.
My goal is to make his eyes roll back, to make him come back for more, to miss his sweet taste and male scent....

Just a thought out loud today.

Enjoy the Saturday night on your hot dates!
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Santa needs a hand...
Posted:Dec 13, 2018 5:22 pm
Last Updated:Dec 15, 2018 3:42 pm
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Or more like a mouth and good ol'blowjob!
Put some life back into his jolly self.



Santa, I will give a BJ to get off the naughty list!

..wait.... I don't think it works like that
But at least I would be in his top 10 for the best gifts.

Thirsty Thursday and craving cock.

Tis the season to get on that naughty list.. or get off
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Hump day #KinkGoals
Posted:Dec 12, 2018 11:52 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2018 2:06 pm
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I wanna be that Little old kinky lady that lives down the road when I grow up!



But apart from that I found some mannequins online about 4+hrs away.
I have been looking for the right one to practice bondage on! That way I don't have to deal with guys just looking for sex or a 'free pro domme session'.
I will be in Vancouver in Jan, so I can hopefully pick it up then.
Then I can practice my rope work when I'm able to in the comfort of my own home.

I did look at the silicone male torso sexdoll toy, yanno the one with the big penis, but it would be tough to hide in my place. Lol

Anyhoo,
Enjoy the mid week as its all downhill from here.
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Sinday coffee 🙂
Posted:Dec 9, 2018 11:18 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2018 10:13 am
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So the front porch is done and just requires some staining now!

Slow n steady with the weight control, which is tough for someone that enjoys rich good soul food. Lol. But the results are pleasing to see.


But I did notice that my dark line has come back again, but that has been there since my teens. Yah hormone fluctuations. Lol

Once I get the ok from the physio to take up rigorous exercise again then I will be much happier with the 'toning'. For now its a modified pilates program...sure miss trail running though.

Anyway, you do what you can with what you got, and you can't out train your diet....but sindays are for hashbrowns, bratwurst and eggs.

Its sinday on the farm, things to do, laundry and house cleaning... found a large steamer trunk that I will add some cedar planks then turn into my toy box. Then I have my kitchen cabinets to finish up.

Sexy bloggers,
How is your day going?
Do anything exciting?? Hot dates? Meet anyone exciting? Any date at all?
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New dress 😁
Posted:Dec 7, 2018 3:36 pm
Last Updated:Dec 17, 2018 1:49 pm
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It's party night and I always dress to impress. Lol.



I do clean up well once the steel toes come off.

Enjoy the evening, the food should be good!
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Thirsty Thursday in the badlands
Posted:Dec 6, 2018 5:29 pm
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2018 11:11 am
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Try again...



A hot date with a whole night of sensual and pleasurable sex would be soooo awesome right now.
But I bet I would want more sex after that because once the pent up flood gate is opened... I would end up even more frustrated!

Trying so very hard to keep those gates closed until I can find someone....

But ya, horny, frustrated, the badlands needs more ice cream. Lol
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Pre hump day post..
Posted:Dec 4, 2018 8:32 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2018 10:02 am
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And because I'm still hella bored and needing some stimulating conversation, laughs or just a bottle of wine, whatevers..

I was thinkin out loud this afternoon on my commute home and:

Sex life soo dry...

That the hitchhikers start to look like this:



Well over 2 years and only having sex 3 times, (yikes I know)
a few meet ups a few years ago but they had a plethora of excuses as to why the boner didn't work ... or they came soo quick that it doesn't even count,
or they blamed me for being too hot or (usually) not hot enough,
or they degrade you the minute they are done...

The point is that I'm Not wondering if the hitchhiker is going to be a killer,
I'm just wondering if he can get a boner,
would he degrade me or humiliate me for enjoying sex,
would he at least last long enough to get a condom on.... but being an axe murderer doesnt even cross my mind. Lol

Yah, that's a lame attempt at humor tonight, but seriously I have checked out hitchhikers before and wondered if they would put out for a ride somewhere. If he would be offended if I asked him to rub my clit to orgasm..
Especially when the dates are bottom of the barrel, how much worse could a hiker be besides unwashed...

But then the hikers usually look like pugsley adams but when one is hot horny and craving excitement they start to look like the cowboy!

Oh, sure theres some law about picking up men ... but this is just a story. Lol
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Tues in the badlands
Posted:Dec 4, 2018 10:27 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2018 8:16 am
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Sounds about right.

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Late Sinday thoughts
Posted:Dec 2, 2018 7:25 pm
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2018 6:54 pm
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Better late than never

Was a busy day on the farm with helping the bro with his firewood loads. And he cuts BIG firewood logs 😲 I'm kinda tuckered out. Lol. Felt like 4hrs of crossfit.

But apart from that I was browsing some hot looking photos on the kink site and come across this one:



Now that would be nice deep and hot, definitely squirty orgasms at that angle.
There are some positions that I find hotter than others, but its rare to find men adventurous enough to try new things.

There are many positions that are great to do with the right guy, especially because they involve him actually touching you vs him just touching you with his cock. Lol. I quite enjoy the sensual sex when his whole body is close to mine, you can feel the heat from him, feel his breathe on your neck, ...

Hm, Mind you a sensual massage before sex would be awesome right about now!

Yes yes I know this is the wrong site to find primal hot passionate sex, hence why I don't search on here anymore. On here its just a 5 min nsa hookup amd nothing more.

So yep, still searching for those men with the same sexual interests as me.

Anyhoo,
Shower time and then a early bedtime.
While I get to dream about hot sex, I hope your weekend was sexier than mine!
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Viewing hot profiles on a Friday
Posted:Nov 30, 2018 11:19 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2018 6:59 am
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So it's another Friday here in the badlands, at the laundry mat washing blankets. If you wonder why I seem to do lots of laundry, I have a woodstove and everything has that nice smokey smell to it to remind you that winter is here. Plus I just like clean bedding.


Lets see
Hot profiles!
Yes even though I won't meet up anymore doesn't stop me from fantasizing about some of the men on here. Hey now , libido is hibernating but it still has a glimmer of naughty to it. Lol

Visually stimulating thats for sure! And the sex that I imagine is pretty panty drenching. Some days I wonder what it would actually be like to message those profiles and find one to meet at a place where a hotel is handy.
To have some really hot all night sex!
To feel his hard body next to me, his hard thick cock sliding in nice n slow...
Feel his hands actually touching my body, and see the lust in his eyes.

Yes I have definitely had some hot thoughts around what kind of sex those attractive women get handed every day. Some of my hotter fantasies are around nsa sex but then I used to watch too much porn. Lol

Anyhoo, back to fantasizing about the men I see.
Enjoy your day.
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Thirsty Thursday...
Posted:Nov 29, 2018 1:18 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2018 7:39 am
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And when you run out of things to ponder then show a nudie pic.



Anyway, tales from the dating site trenches...
I don't show a face pic on my dating profiles because of the shallowness of the whole online thing. Yes yes I know it cuts my 'chances' by at least 75% because men want pretty faces and thin bodies before they will stop and skim a profile. But it should be obvious by now that I like words, though interestingly enough I not a chatty cathy type in real life.

And then, back to face pics, one thing I learned was if he wants to see a face pic before any sort of convo then he's not looking for me. And when he continues to pester for a pic stating he isnt the 'shallow type', I just roll my eyes, send him a pic, then count the seconds to him ghosting. Lol. So much for " not shallow!".
It has happened soo many times now that I just dont even bother sending a pic and just ignore any contact from those that demand or want to see a face pic now. Whatevers, it is what it is, men want the top 10% of the beauty lotto winners. Lol.

Anyhoo, and then,
Content of profiles Does it really matter the content when the menfolk are just looking for the words 'dtf' or 'nsa only'.

Ya, readjusting my afternoon schedule to work through the snow that wasnt supposed to come till tonight.

Sexy bloggers,
when it comes to profiles on dating sites, or even this site (as many "claim" to not be on standard dating sites),
Are you looking for photos or content?
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